Note to Self:

When out with your girl-friends and a guy at the bar asks if your camera takes good pictures - Think twice! The guy may simply want a "Picture of my friend playing pool over there," but it could be more than that.

Then, when later on in the night, 'Guy Playing Pool' comes over to chat and you find out he has NO IDEA who 'Picture Guy' is you realize either, A) He's gay or B) You just gave him access to your phone number.

So don't be surprised when he begins texting you (often).

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The texts have been about nothing in particular. Just small talk. I found out he's a friend of a friend, so I've been 'playing nice'. I've only met him the one time, though he's asked me several times since if I will be out at the bar anytime soon. He knows I'm married. So, I figured there couldn't be any harm....

Then, 'Picture Guy' texts me and says, "I know where you live." Come to find out, he lives just a few houses down from me. Hmmm... I wonder if I should be worried???

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Oh.. And while we are on the topic of Guys at The Bar - What is wrong with Men?!?

My BIL told me once that "Married women are off limits. I will never go there."

Is he just a really good guy or lying to me, his SIL? Because, I swear, you tell a guy your married and it's like he 'ignores' that fact... just keeps pressing on with the LAME come-on lines. Give me a break! Not interested! I've found that it's so much easier to state that I'm gay (while giving my girl-'friend' a big hug). Can you believe that? "Lesbians are off limits, but guys if she's married it's fair game!"